11 Things That Happen When You Have A Habit Of Saying YES

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A habit of saying YES all the time has always been a quite of a question mark. Is it good habit or bad? Still a thinker. We can say its a mix of both. So if this habit runs in your blood, then you are surely going to say yes to the outcomes stated below.

1. You befriend everyone

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We all are curious and equally suspicious about a new person. Now the world is like this. You have to take chances and we are the ones who do. We end up saying YES. Even if friends around caution you not to be with someone, you don’t want to buy it, until experience it yourself. What can we do? Can’t be asked to be rude!

2. Offer help to anyone

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Can you pick me up? Can you lend me money? Can you drop me? Can you lend me some more money?
Yes, ahan, sure and hmm! What else can we say now? You are bound to say yes, even if it makes you uncomfortable. Now that’s how we are. You might want to say No, but somehow… god knows how, we always agree.

3. Keep the drama away

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Let’s face it. Saying YES always keep things smooth, for that time. You prefer avoiding awkwardness. You don’t want to hurt someone. You just say yes to keep any possible drama aside. Yeah? Yes!

4. Things get out of control

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If you keep saying YES, you will end up making a ‘things-to-do’  list and land into a lot of confusion and trouble. So, only if you have time and know you can, say yes. Everything in a limit is perfectly alright. But often leads to coordinating, leading and only you end up taking the blame if unable to keep up to your YES.  

5. You are taken for granted

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Yes to that. We accept it’s the human nature. Yes. People who have a companion that agree with their views, provide help every-time and stand with them always… are then taken for granted. And if you are one of those who just can’t help but end up saying YES (even if you don’t want to), you might be a victim too. It is not a good feeling. You are not always given, the value you deserve. But well, we end up saying YES to that too. So beware, don’t let them play you!

6. You become a kind stranger

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You have to pay a great deal of thoughts when a stranger asks for help. Big or small, you end up saying – Yes. Now guys, here you have to use your own common sense. You don’t know them, so make sure what you do for them… doesn’t result back in harming you. Otherwise, saying Yes to strangers might also take an interesting turn of events. And not to forget, you put a great first impression.

7. You trust everyone

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Isn’t it? You say Yes, because you trust that person. You want to help them out. It is hard to scan through their intentions, but you always stay positive and go for it. Can’t say ‘No’ because it’s hard. Whatever problems or stories one has, they seem genuine. Aaah, if only we could read minds, could save ourselves some trouble!

8. In require to learn to use NO

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AND IT’S URGENT! Even though we come out well by doing good for others by saying YES, we really should learn to say NO too. Equations make sense when balanced. The habit of saying YES can also make you fall into pits of trouble. You can be cheated, misguided or fooled. And that would harm you and no ones else. You will start blaming your own self for helping or agreeing with others which can cause negative effects. So no matter how hard, learn to NO when needed. Trust me, it won’t make you a bad person!

9. You are a nice person

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It’s not the habit of saying ‘Yes’. Maybe it’s simply because you are a nice person. You like to help others. It’s called being polite. You hate to harm anyone emotionally or being rude. You want the best for everyone. And to be honest, it’s a good sign. So no worries.

10. You always gain something

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A good thing about saying Yes is that you gain something out of it. You either end up pleasing/helping someone or you learn some lesson or get experience out of the outcome. Which isn’t that bad either. But when you learn a lesson, hold it. Learning the same lesson again and again will simply imply that you are being stupid and you seriously need to fix your habit of saying YES!

11. You are loved

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Even though you are being taken for granted, you are still loved. When in need, you are the first choice. They know you have a bag full of solutions and will definitely help attain something. And that’s good too, right? Even if they don’t out-rightly appreciate you, you know they still respect and value you from the inside. 

So dear ‘can’t-help-but-say-YES’ people, inculcate the habit of saying No too, otherwise you might end up saying Yes to multiple proposals! Guess what that will lead to? (Daamn)

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Anaida Sen

Anaida Sen

Anaida finished her masters from UK last year and currently working as a copywriter. All her days are a mixture of food, animals, music, daydreaming and coffee. She believes in sharing experiences and thoughts which can help others in some way. Hence, she never hold back from sharing her views.
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